So I’m in the pub tonight with a friend and the fella, enjoying a few drinks, and we realise the mental one is also there. Well, not going to move just because of that! The evening wears on with no issues until around last orders, when she and a friend go to the toilets and just before the door shuts we hear her shout “fat bitch”. Could be aimed at anyone, perhaps even jokingly at the friend she was with so we ignored it. However when she came out she then goes back to her seat and sits down, only to then stand up again and shout “you fat slag” in my direction. Totally unprovoked. We hadn’t even let on that we knew she was there.
We leave and get back to the house before her, so get sorted and go to bed. She then comes in with her two friends shouting at each other and crashing about. They come upstairs to her room where they crash about more before she does a bizarre evil cackle on the landing before shouting “c*nts!” at my bedroom.
What is the point at all?
Housing
So I went for my meeting with SU Advice team last week. They were essentially useless other than telling me where the Accommodation office was.
Went to the Accommodation office yesterday. She was really helpful and really nice, but yeah, nothing I can do. I’m stuck. My housing company have nowhere to move me so I can’t do that. I could try to sell my contract but there isn’t anybody buying. And given I essentially only have til mid May left it’s not worth it.
Bugger.
Wish the rat thing next door would shut up. Her and her friend can be no more than 6 feet away from each other but she still deems it necessary to shout at him.
Meeting
Went for the meeting today. He’s reluctant to put in a formal complaint as it might well make my housing situation much worse if I’m still living there. He’s talked me through all of my options though. I have a meeting at 2pm tomorrow with the SU Advice Centre to try and see if there can be anything done about moving me. I’ve been told to get them to ring m landlord for me rather than doing it myself as they are better equipped to deal with it than me. Finger crossed for tomorrow then!
Since the car…
There hadn’t really been anything else got wrong since my car getting keyed on the 9th. I came back last week Monday-Thursday, no problems. This week I’ve come back up to find the mental case has been into my room.
As a house we each left our spare room key in a kitchen cupboard so that if we weren’t there and somebody needed to get in for maintainence or whatever then they could, or if we locked ourselves out we could get back in. However she has taken my key, entered my wardrobe and found my toiletries. My conditioner has been replaced. It was green and apple smelling. It is now pink, vaguely strawberry smelling and upon closer inspection is actually hair removal cream mixed with a little shower gel for the smell. Quite how she thought I wouldn’t notice I really don’t know! Green to pink is a big difference. I’m not exactly just going to slap it on my head regardless!
I’m pissed that she’s done it, but I’m more upset about her unwelcome presence in my bedroom. This was my one space I could be away from her and safe and now I feel it’s been violated. Feeling seriously uncomfortable right now.
I’ve spoken to my year tutor on my course and he’s been really supportive. He’s suggested I file a formal complaint against her as a student of the university. It might help me get out of my contract and/or move into a different house. fingers crossed. Hopefully I have a meeting on Wednesday about it all, just waiting on a confirmation email.
One bloody night.
I came back to Preston for one night. I had to hand in an essay yesterday and I had to do a sleep study last night for the hospital. The machine had to be back by 10am this morning so I figured stay in Preston as it’s much easier.
Housemate goes out drinking. Not even that angry at being woken at 5:45am by her coming in as I just expect it these days. I am pissed, however, at my car having been keyed. Down both sides, and a ‘X’ on the bonnet. No other car in the street has been touched. Just know it’s her.
I was supposed to be on my way home by now, lunch with a friend. Instead I’m stuck here to go and see a police officer at 4pm. Yes, damn straight I’ve been and reported it!
This just got ridiculous.
So, I came home to find some quiet and try to get some work done…?
She’s downstairs screaching away ¬¬
How am I supposed to ever get anything done if wherever I go people are screaming and shouting? :’(
Fair sure I live with some sort of guinea pig-rat-peakanese crossbreed. Nothing can be that squeaky, high pitched and annoying and be human.
“Can we not just drop the whole thing? Pure sick of emails off uni about “bully” warnings, and now one off some mediator? Leave it alone! Stop attention seeking with it. Much much easier to drop things than it is to drag them out”
So that’s the text message I’ve just received from the housemate. I was getting nowhere with the police so went to speak to the welfare people at the university with a possible view to moving out. They said they’d like to set up a mediation session for me to try to resolve the issue first, which I agreed to try though I admit I didn’t think it would be successful.
However, this is the first time that I’m aware of that the uni should have contacted her. How can she be “pure sick of emails off uni about “bully” warnings” if this is the first she’s had?
As for it being much easier to drop things? I feel she just doesn’t want to face that she has been behaving like a bully and did commit assault. Surely it’s much better to try to resolve the issue and come to some common ground rather than letting it fester and potentially get worse?
So fed up of all this now. I think I might stay in the house and just make things as awkward as possible. Why should I have to move out when she’s the one being a child?
*edit*
Having just accessed my uni emails I discovered the head of our section of the School had emailed out a letter from the Dean. This letter was to do with a bullying issue. Perhaps this is the email the housemate is referring to? Does she not think that it might not be specifically about the issues between us? That there might have been other issues reported? Our School after all not only covers Fine Art and Drawing and Image Making, but all forms of art, fashion, graffic design, print, performance art, drama, music etc?
1:50am
Her fuck buddy has just turned up. And now they’re in her room, talking loudly and crashing about. Really? Pissed ¬¬
